I just found out my couple friends went through a divorce. I’m not sure what I’m thinking or feeling now. I feel sorry that they didn’t work things out, that they had to go through miserable time, that they both grown up and must had thought about their problems a lot before they came to that decision.
Who am I kidding? I wasn’t that close to them, and what I thought is the worst thing might be the best thing in their lives. Just like I admire those friends in relationships, I also admire those who decided to go separate ways. I admire the former for their willingness to find the middle ground, and the later for their thorough consideration to end something that they thought was a good idea on the first place.
I’m not sure what is going on in our society. Are we less willing to stay put and compromise differences, or is the society deeply interfering our domestic problems for it’s allowing us to left the mainstream? And what is the mainstream nowadays. There are divorces in all places, and it might be the mainstream of today. Well, maybe I’m just an old-fashioned girl with an old way of thinking. I always consider stay together is the best thing in the world for those in marriage life. I’m an amateur in this field since I’m not married (yet)! Therefore, I’m not in place to speak on behalf of marriage couples.
