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I had a chat with my married-guy-friends just the other day. And we talked about their unhappy married lives. But they are not going to say it out loud, since they did that once and got punishment. A real punishment from God because the minute they said that (I’m sorry that I’ve married you!) they got into accidents! Therefore they just hide their feelings. Never exposed that to anyone and a little bit stress. I got into this discussion out of my question to them on how they never spoke about their wife, only their children. The question caught them for a while, and I thought I’m putting them in an awkward position for not being able to respond to my nosey question. Than I just gave the most possible choice of answer of “You have stronger bound with your children than with your wives, because the tie between you and your wife can be broken but not between you and your children!” And they just nodded. Sadly, I saw the relieve in their faces. They admitted that the worst possibility always cross their minds. They did talk about their problems to someone else and usually opposite sex with similar issue. But they never cross the line for they always think about the best interest of their children. Sincerely, I wish that along the journey, they’ll find happiness. Everyone deserves that!